Making New Friends

_V4A9292Each time I’ve arrived for treatment this week, I have been greeted by Emilie.  There is no denying how stunning she is, but to be honest, that has nothing to do with why I wanted to photograph her.  She has a warmth and openness that makes you feel like you are exactly where you belong.  And she is just one example of the many people you encounter when you walk through the doors of the treatment center (I will photograph and share more faces with you as the days go by).

Everyone here treats you as if they have a personal stake in your well-being.  I believe that the way caregivers treat you and the energy that they bring into the room, plays a huge role in your response to this treatment.  Today, I walked by a room where I saw an infant of no more that 9 months being treated for a skin condition that covered his limbs and torso.  I watched this lovely woman dressed in white, gingerly wrap his/her arm with a compress soaked in the water.  The baby was so calm and happy.  While I was watching them, it all of a sudden hit me… I’ve seen so many children of various ages, with severe skin conditions, being treated here, and while walking through the halls these last few days, I’ve never heard crying.  I’ve only heard laughter and the playful banter that goes on between kids and their parents.  As this realization washed over me, my eyes began to well up and I felt a sort of gratitude that is completely new to me.  It wasn’t gratitude for the treatment that I was receiving, but gratitude for witnessing the positive impact that humans can have on one another.  Not with technology, not with money, and not with a well honed skill… but with a commitment to caring for someone with empathy, respect and love.  This feeling and memory will be a gift that will live within me forever.  It will heal my “ills” for years to come, and it will help put me back on track when I lose touch with what really matters in this life.

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